Shortly after Janet and I were married, our home Church, Christian Renewal, announced that they would have a water baptism.  Unlike the baptisms that I was accustomed to at church, this one would be an outdoor, public, “Ocean Baptism”, on Saint Simon’s Island.

Janet told me that she wanted to be baptized in the Ocean Baptism.  We talked about it, thought about it and I decided that we would be baptized together as a couple!


I had already been baptized at age Seven, why did Janet and I decide to be water baptized together in an OCEAN BAPTISM?

I am so excited to tell you why this Sunday!  So, join us at Believers Church, 4-30-17, at 9 or 11 a.m. and let me tell you why we chose an Ocean Baptism.

Don’t forget it’s Family Worship Day and all the Believing Kids will be joining us in the sanctuary so we can worship together as families and share in Holy Communion together.

It’s also a 5th Sunday, so all tithes and offerings received this Sunday will go directly into our building fund so that we will be prepared to build, when God says to build.

DON’T forget about the Five Week Choose Life challenge!

Attend all Five Jesus in the 80s events and win a CHOOSE LIFE T-SHIRT.

___ 4-16-17 REZ POWER

___ 4-23-17 SCANDALS

___ 4-30-17 OCEAN BAPTISM (Family Worship Day)


(Sweet 16 Celebration Picnic and Outdoor Baptism)


(Mother’s Day)


During the 80s, Janet and I married, established careers, moved six times, had three children together, and learned a lot about family, friends, the joy, and the harsh realities of life of adulthood. It was challenging at times and I quickly realized that my father’s faith was not going to be enough to get us through, I needed my own faith!  I needed to know and experience Jesus’ Resurrection Power in my life!  One of the things that made the 80s difficult was not only an excessive obsession with materialism and worldliness in our culture, but also the scandals that resulted from that mind set.  I think every generation has its fair share of scandals, and the 80s were no exception.

Top 10 List of Scandals in the 80s (in my opinion)

10)          The Iran Contra Affair

9)            The Savings and Loan Scandal

8)            The Challenger “group think” disaster

7)            Milli Vanilli caught lip syncing

6)            Pete Rose banned for life for betting

5)            Rosie Ruiz winning the Boston Marathon

4)            Sprinter Ben Johnson stripped of his Gold after testing positive for steroids

3)            Vanessa Williams stripped of Miss America title for posing inappropriately

2)            The Politician Gary Hart messing around on a boat called “Monkey Business”

1)            TV Evangelist Scandals

The reason I rank televangelist scandals as the number one scandal of the 80s is because they were the ones that affected me the most.  Here I am as a young husband and father trying to represent Jesus in a real world, trying to live according to the standards in the Word of God, and trying to live a life filled with the Resurrection Power of Christ Jesus, and these well known, highly visible Christians were messing up and making all of us look bad!

  • Jimmy Swaggart was exposed in a scandal involving a prostitute, leading to his dismissal from the AG Church. A very public and heartfelt apology was given, but it would happen again.
  • But the biggest, most publicized and embarrassing scandal of the 80s was that of Jim Baker, host of PTL. He was accused of an affair and a cover up with Jessica Hahn, but what really got him in trouble and sentenced to Federal Prison was 8 counts of mail fraud, 15 counts of wire fraud, one count of conspiracy.

The scandal made it hard to be a Pastor. Now in the world’s eyes, the credibility of a pastor or evangelist dropped just below lawyers and used car salesmen. (Sorry lawyers and car salesmen.  It was the world’s opinion, not necessarily mine)  I graduated from Seminary in the spring of 1980, and one of the last things they told us was…

Beware of the Three G’s!    Gold, Girls, and Glory!

As I look back on the scandals of the 80s, all of them fall somewhere within these Three G’s.

People were driven or blinded by the lure and quest of Gold, money or materialism, or they were caught up in self-glorification and the praise of men, or they were caught up in some sort of sexual impurity.

All of these resulted in a lack of judgement, a lack of Godly character, and a lack of integrity.

All of these scandals only increased by resolve to live my life as a man of integrity.  I wanted to live my life according to the standards laid out in the Bible by a loving God who only wanted the best for me.


There is No Substitute for Hard Work  The “Prosperity” Teachings of the 80s were an eye opener to many, but many of those teaching were quickly being taken out of context, used, and abused.  In the teachings of some, tithing, offerings, gifts, and generosity, were reduced to “get rich quick’ schemes, like Amway and Shaklee.

Proverb 13:11 NLT Wealth from get-rich-quick schemes quickly disappears; wealth from hard work grows over time.

Proverbs 28:19-20  Those who work their land will have abundant food, but those who chase fantasies will have their fill of poverty.  20 A faithful person will be richly blessed, but one eager to get rich will not go unpunished.


  • Don’t Let Money Become the Center of Your Life

Palms 62:10 NLT Don’t make your living by extortion or put your hope in stealing.  And if your wealth increases, don’t make it the center of your life.

  • Don’t Love and Long for Money

1 Timothy 6:10  For the love of money is a root of all sorts of evil, and some by longing for it have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs

  • Know That Riches Are Uncertain, God is Not

1 Timothy 6:17  Instruct those who are rich in this present world not to be conceited or to fix their hope on the uncertainty of riches, but on God, who richly supplies us with all things to enjoy

Proverbs 11:28 Those who trust in their riches will fall, but the righteous will thrive like a green leaf.

Proverbs 11:28 NLT “Trust in your money and down you go!” 

  • Continue to Tithe

It was one thing to tithe when I cut grass at age 13, or working part time at Burger King or a Craft Store when I was living under Mom and Dad’s roof. Now, I am responsible for all the bills!  Why did Janet and I tithe through the 80s and still tithe today?

Tithing Provides for God’s Work Through His Church.

Malachi 3:10a  Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, (The Storehouse – an Old Testament picture of the New Testament Church.) that there may be food in my house.

When you bring your tithe to God through the local church, you are providing for the work of God through His church!

Tithing Teaches Me to Put God First.

Tithing is one of the most practical and tangible ways in our lives that we can consistently put God first.

The purpose of tithing is to teach you always to put God first in your lives. Deuteronomy 14:23b TLB

Tithing Increases My Faith in God.

Those of you who are tithers know this already.  You know that tithing teaches you that 90% with God’s blessings goes farther than 100% without God’s blessings.  God is testing us, and we are told only one time in the Bible for us to test God. Malachi 3:10b ‘Test me in this,’  Tithing was sort of the “Acid Test” for me.  Was I trusting God or not?  Was I going to put God first or not?  Would money be my master, or would I allow God to master my money?

NEXT LIFE STEP:  This week I will evaluate my life and repent if I trust money more than God.

Girls / Guys

Flee Sexual Immorality

1 Corinthians 6:18-20 Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. 19 Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God?  You are not your own; 20 you were bought at a price.

Therefore honor God with your bodies.  Think about that.  If your body is literally filled with the Holy Spirit of God,

every sexual sin that you commit, you are dragging the Holy Spirit thought that experience with you.

Matthew 5:27- 28 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”

God is serious about this. Maybe in the 80s, and today, we should take sexual sins more seriously!THE ANSWER: What did I do in the 80s to help me “flee sexual immorality”?

  • Die to the Flesh, Be Filled with the Spirit

I died to my flesh and daily asked the Lord to fill me with His Holy Spirit.

Galatians 5:16  So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.

Some temptations will never be overcome by sheer will-power alone.  You need the power of the Spirit!

  • Read and Meditate on The Word of God

I began to read and meditate on The Word of God (the Bible).

Psalms 119:11  I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you. 

  • Resolve to Live a Pure Life

I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman. Job 31:1

NEXT LIFE STEP:  This week I will evaluate my life and repent of all sexual immorality.


Let’s Make a Name for Ourselves

We all have a tendency to fall into the age-old sin manifested way back at the Tower Babel.

Genesis 11:4 Then they said, “Come, let us build ourselves a city, with a tower that reaches to the heavens, so that we may make a name for ourselves; otherwise we will be scattered over the face of the whole earth.”      

Let us make a name for ourselves! I had to be very careful as I tried to make my way in the world, and yes in a sense make a name for myself, not to take any of God’s credit or Glory.

King Nebuchadnezzar’s Glory?

\Daniel 4: 28-30 All this happened to King Nebuchadnezzar. 29 Twelve months later, as the king was walking on the roof of the royal palace of Babylon, 30 he said, “Is not this the great Babylon I have built as the royal residence, by my mighty power and for the glory of my majesty?”  Even if this was not boldly spoken, I’m sure this is what was going through the minds of those involved in some of the sandals of the 80s. Have you ever thought like this?  Look what I have done?  Daniel 4:31-33 Even as the words were on his lips, a voice came from heaven, “This is what is decreed for you, King Nebuchadnezzar: Your royal authority has been taken from you. 32 You will be driven away from people and will live with the wild animals; you will eat grass like the ox.  Seven times will pass by for you until you acknowledge that the Most High is sovereign over all kingdoms on earth and gives them to anyone he wishes.” 33 Immediately what had been said about Nebuchadnezzar was fulfilled. He was driven away from people and ate grass like the ox. His body was drenched with the dew of heaven until his hair grew like the feathers of an eagle and his nails like the claws of a bird.


  • Turn Your Eyes to Heaven, Praise the Most High, and Glorify Him!

Daniel 4:34 At the end of that time, I, Nebuchadnezzar, raised my eyes toward heaven, and my sanity was restored.  Then I praised the Most High; I honored and glorified him who lives forever. His dominion is an eternal dominion; his kingdom endures from generation to generation. One of the things I learned in the 80s was that as I learned more of the majesty and glory of God; the more I saw how glorious He was, the more I realized that I was not, the more humble I became.

  • Walk Humbly

I tried to live by the exhortation in Micah 6:8 Micah 6:8 He has shown you, O mortal, what is good.  And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God. A good life would be lived justly, showing mercy to others (no holier than thou attitude), and to walk humbly before God.

  • Don’t Take God’s Glory

In Acts 14, while Paul was preaching, he looked at a man that had been lame from birth and saw that the man had faith to be healed.  Paul called out to him, “Stand up on your feet!”  The man jumped up and walked! The people were so amazed they proclaim Paul and Barnabas gods and wanted to make offering to them. They called Barnabas and Paul Zeus, but Paul turned the glory back to God! Acts 14:14-15 But when the apostles Barnabas and Paul heard of this, they tore their clothes and rushed out into the crowd, shouting: 15 “Friends, why are you doing this?  We too are only human, like you.  We are bringing you good news, telling you to turn from these worthless things to the living God… They didn’t play into the God complex or allow others to worship them, like I saw some doing in the 80s.


NEXT LIFE STEP:  This week I will evaluate my life and repent if I have been taking God’s glory or credit for God is doing. 

Life App Group and Family Devotional Application

  1. What are the Three G’s to Beware of?
  1. Why do you think the lure of money pulls so many people into sin? Do people trust God or money?
  1. The standards for Sexual Purity are clearly laid out in the Bible, why do very few people seem to care?
  1. Why is it so important to always give God the glory and to take no credit ourselves?

What were the Biggest Scandals in the 80s?

During the 80s, Janet and I quickly realized that we needed to know and experience Jesus’ Resurrection Power in our lives! But as we were trying to represent Jesus in a real world, trying to live according to the standards in the Word of God, here came the Scandals. So, we had to deal with that too, well known, highly visible Christians were messing up and making all of us look bad!

Surly there was a way to live with integrity? Right? Well, let’s talk about it this Sunday!

Join us at 9 or 11 a.m. as we continue , “Jesus In The 80s.” You will also receive one of our favorite items from the 80s!

Also, don’t forget we are in our Five Week CHOOSE LIFE CHALLENGE. If you attend every event during JESUS IN THE 80s, you will receive a CHOOSE LIFE T-Shirt! Keep track on your communication card each week.

We are on Spring Break so no Wednesday night service tonight! Enjoy this time with your families and don’t forget to sign up for a Life Group! You can sign up online at




JESUS and WE  “We Choose to Do Life Together.” Sermon Notes  Believers Statesboro 04-02-17

When you or I are in a relationship with God it’s easy to talk about ‘Jesus and Me’.  We want you to have a strong relationship with Jesus, and we are encouraging you on an individual level to CHOOSE LIFE!

But my walk with God is not just about ‘Jesus and Me’, it’s also about Jesus and We!  And there are certain things that can never get accomplished with just ‘Jesus and Me’, it’s going to require “Jesus and We”.

In this series, we are focusing on our shared relationship with Jesus, “Jesus and We”.

More specifically we are looking at what We, at Believers Church, can choose to do together.

NEXT LIFE STEP:  I will memorize the five We Choose statements between Jesus and We:


  • Because we believe God is our partner, we choose to make our plans BIG.
  • Because we believe, we choose to think big and not insult God with small thinking.
  • Because we believe, we choose to take risks and not insult God with safe living.


  • The church does not exist for us.
  • We are the church, and we exist for the world.


  • We choose generosity because we truly believe it is more blessed to give than to receive.
  • Choosing generosity is not just what we do, being generous is who we are.
  • We choose to plan to be generous and stand firm in generosity.


  • We don’t just WANT to reach people for Jesus… we MUST reach people for Jesus.
  • We choose to do anything short of sin to reach people who don’t know Jesus.
  • We choose to reach people no one is reaching, so we’ll do things no one is doing.


Last year we did a whole series called “Better Together,” and Better Together is not just a nice sounding thing that we say. It is what we truly believe and experience here at Believers Church.  Therefore, We Choose to Do Life Together.  It is our choice and privilege.

NEXT LIFE STEP: How Much Do I Do Life With Others

Very Seldom       1        2        3        4        5        6        7         8       9        10         Very Often

We Choose to Help Each Other Find Strength in God.

King David began as a shepherd boy, was anointed to be the King of Israel, and eventually took His rightful place on the throne, but there was a “waiting phase” for David.  Even after he was chosen by God and anointed to be King by the Prophet Samuel, the current King, Saul, was jealous of David and sought to kill him.  David was hiding in the wilderness. Jonathan, Saul’s son, rose, and went to David to help him find strength in God.

1 Samuel 23:15-18 While David was at Horesh in the Desert of Ziph, he learned that Saul had come out to take his life. 16 And Saul’s son Jonathan went to David at Horesh and helped him find strength in God. 17 “Don’t be afraid,” he said. “My father Saul will not lay a hand on you.  You will be king over Israel, and I will be second to you.  Even my father Saul knows this.” 18     The two of them made a covenant before the LORD.  Then Jonathan went home, but David remained at Horesh. (NIV)

We all need Godly friends; it’s vitally important, but more than we need friends, we need God.

Friendship brings strength into our lives, but first and foremost we need to find our strength in God.

At this low point in David’s life, he needed a friend, but he needed God more!

Jonathan, a true friend, helped David find that strength.

Life is hard.  There are many battles of faith to fight.  Things can get difficult very fast.  You may be at the top of the mountain today and at the bottom of the valley tomorrow.  I need strength, you need strength.  We need to Choose to Do Life Together, and choose to help one another find our strength in God.

  • We do that in a corporate setting and worship events, Sundays and Wednesdays.
  • We attend “The Big Three” (Believing Couples, Men Who Believe, Inside Out Ladies).
  • We join Life Groups – Groups based on common interest and felt needs.
  • We serve together.

“People aren’t just looking for a friendly church, they are looking for friends.”

When you are in distress, need someone to come to your side, who are you going to call?

Life Groups and church in general is designed to help you find those friends, so that you can be strengthened in the Lord.

NEXT LIFE STEP:  Today, I will list my true friends that help me find strength in God.

We are proactively helping each other find strength in God.

Jonathan was proactive, he made a conscience effort to go to David during this very hard time in his life and help David find strength in the Lord.

1 Samuel 23:16  And Saul’s son Jonathan went to David at Horesh and helped him find strength in God.  Jonathan went to David.

David is hiding out from one place to another in the wilderness of Ziph about 30 miles south of Jerusalem.  Jonathan traveled those 30 miles to find him.  Jonathon risked the wrath of his father and the armies of Saul to go and find David.  Why?  He wanted to help David find strength in God.

Do you have reliable friends that will do that for you?

Proverbs 18:24 One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. 

Remember the church does not exist for us.  We are the church, and we exist for others.

“Oh, I don’t need to join a Life Group”, some say, “I don’t need to be encouraged in God.  I’m doing just fine.”  Well I don’t agree with that, but for the sake of argument let’s say that is true.  Wouldn’t you still want to be a part of a Church and a Life Group so that you can help others and encourage them?

What a difference it would make in our church if we began to proactively strengthen one another and help each other find strength in God?

  • Jonathan didn’t accidently meet David in Horesh (though sometimes that does happen) He PLANNED to go and strengthen him.
  • This is the mark of your maturity in the Lord.  Immature Christians go to Church to get blessed.

Mature Christians go to church to get blessed and be a blessing to others.

NEXT LIFE STEP:  Today, I will list my answer to this question, “Who are you intentionally encouraging and helping them find their strength in the Lord?”

Are you going to be proactive and join a Life Group so that you can not only be strengthened yourself, but you attend with the goal to strengthen others as well?

We Choose to Encourage One Another Daily.

Hebrews 3:12-14 See to it, brothers and sisters, that none of you has a sinful, unbelieving heart that turns away from the living God. 13  But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called “Today,” so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness. 14 We have come to share in Christ, if indeed we hold our original conviction firmly to the very end. 

If you have a lone ranger approach to your Christianity, and you don’t Choose to Do Life Together, you are on the slippery slope to a sinful unbelieving heart that may turn away from the living God.

If you have never been a part of a Life Group here at Believers, you to may be trapped in the deceitfulness of sin already.  You have self-deceived yourself into thinking that you don’t need it. But the truth is you need to do life with others, you need to be encouraged daily!  It’s like oxygen.

“We should seize every opportunity to give encouragement. Encouragement is oxygen to the soul.”

George M. Adams

Choosing to encourage, edify, and build one another up should be an ongoing process.

1 Thessalonians 5:11  Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.  (I love how Paul, assumes that we are already doing it!)

Encouragement may involve protecting one another.

1 Samuel 23:17a  “Don’t be afraid,” he said. “My father Saul will not lay a hand on you…

1 Samuel 23:18 The two of them made a covenant before the LORD.  Then Jonathan went home, but David remained at Horesh.

A Covenant is a blood bond, saying, “I’ve got your back, I will protect you, and what’s yours is mine.” Jonathan was saying to David, “I will be loyal to you, I am devoted to you.”

Romans 12:10  Be devoted to one another in brotherly love.  Honor one another above yourselves.

Encouragement involves meeting together.

Hebrews 10:24-25 And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, 25 not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.

We Choose to Do Life Together… We Choose to Meet Together.  We Choose Life!

NEXT LIFE STEP:  Today, I will begin to speak words of encouragement daily!

We Choose to Remind One Another of the Promises of God for Us.

1 Samuel 23:16 And Saul’s son Jonathan went to David at Horesh and helped him find strength in God.  How did Jonathan help David find his strength in God?

1 Samuel 23:17 “Don’t be afraid,” he said. “My father Saul will not lay a hand on you.  You will be king over Israel, and I will be second to you. Even my father Saul knows this.”

Jonathan reminded David of the promise that God had made to David (1 Samuel 16:12-13).  Jonathan tracked David down to tell him, “You will be king over Israel”, so don’t give up, don’t get discouraged, don’t quit, don’t do something you will regret later, because God always keeps His promises and one day you will be the king of Israel!

How did Jonathan know that God had anointed David to be the king of Israel?  Because they had become close friends, and they could share their stories, hopes and dreams with one another.

They probably went to the same church or were in a Life Group together! We need to be reminding each other of the promises of God! What has God promised He would do for you?

In God’s promises we find strength to face the day with, not self-confidence, but GOD CONFIDENCE!  Standing on the promises of God!

  • As we spend time with each other at Church and in our Life Groups, we will hear, learn, and know each other’s hopes, dreams, and aspirations.
  • We will hear what God has promised each of us.  When things get tough, as they always do, we will have the opportunity to remind each other of the promises of God for our lives, help each other walk in our purpose and destiny!

Choosing to Do Life Together May Involve Serving Each Other.

1 Samuel 23:17 …You will be king over Israel, and I will be second to you…

  • Jonathan could have seen David as a threat and fought for his right to the throne.  But, he humbled himself instead and chose to serve his friend.
  • Jonathan was not only willing to surrender his future kingdom to David without a fight, but also was willing to bow to him in faithful service

This reminds me of our friendship that we have with Christ Jesus.

John 15:13 Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. (NIV)

Because Jesus loved me first and laid down His life for me, I now love Him and am willing to lay down my life for Him.  That’s true friendship.  That’s really doing Life Together!

We Choose to Do Life Together Because Jesus Will Show Up in A Big Way!

Matthew 18:20 For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.”

Jesus is saying, “Where two or three are gathered in my name I am with them.  I will show up!”

When a group of people gather together on official Jesus business, He will show up.

Jesus told us He would be with us always and we could count on Him, but if we want to really experience His presence, if we want to experience something that goes beyond what we experience when we are having our quiet time or praying alone, if we want to get as close to Him as we can get to Him…

We get together with two or more other believers who come together to do official Jesus business and Jesus will show up in an unmistakable and remarkable way.

That means when the church organizes and strategizes to gather together to do official Jesus business, He is there in our midst.

This is Jesus and We!


  • We Choose to Help Each Other Find Strength in God.
  • We Choose to Encourage One Another Daily.
  • We Choose to Remind One Another of the Promises of God for Us.
  • We Choose to Do Life Together Because Jesus Will Show Up in A Big Way!

NEXT LIFE STEP:  Today I will sign up for a Spring Life Group and truly experience JESUS and WE.